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Posted on March 19, 2014, 9:31 pm, F spotting M (Class/Lab/Academic). 12 comments. Mail  MIT

I saw you...

You sat closer to me than I had anticipated; I was forced to admit to myself that I want you. I'm not sure what I want from you--just you.

It's awfully inconvenient, but somehow I wouldn't change it.

If I knew you were after me too, maybe I could justify breaking his heart for you. But I don't know.

  1. maybe I could justify breaking his ____ for you

  2. I'm not sure what I want from you--just ____.

  3. All deez hoes tryna trade they man like monopoly properties. - Biggie

    The nice guy sucker you're currently with is fucked either way. With this dude in your class, or some cute floppy-haired guy at a frat party, or with the next mysterious gent. He probably believes that you love him back, bless his naive little heart. He deserves better than to be treated like a placeholder. Break up with him now, and stop using him before you make things worse.

  4. All deez hoes tryna trade they man like monopoly properties. - Biggie

    The nice guy sucker you're currently with is fucked either way. With this dude in your class, or some cute floppy-haired guy at a frat party, or with the next mysterious gent. He probably believes that you love him back, bless his naive little heart. He deserves better than to be treated like a placeholder. Break up with him now, and stop using him before you make things worse.

  5. All deez hoes tryna trade they man like monopoly properties. - Biggie

    The nice guy sucker you're currently with is fucked either way. With this dude in your class, or some cute floppy-haired guy at a frat party, or with the next mysterious gent. He probably believes that you love him back, bless his naive little heart. He deserves better than to be treated like a placeholder. Break up with him now, and stop using him before you make things worse.

  6. I suppose that's what I was afraid of. Having been with him for over three years, I'm not sure if I should move on or try to tame my wayward heart. I really don't want to hurt him, but if I'm only halfway on board, that's not helping anyone.

  7. Yeah, regardless of where you go with this new guy, it's cruel to string along your current one. You're hurting him more by dragging the inevitable ending longer. His feelings will probably continue to grow over time and he's going to get heartbroken in the end. Cut the cord.

  8. I've been through a similar situation... the sooner you cut the cord the better!

  9. On the subject of love and of leaving:

    http://therumpus.net/2011/06/dear-sugar-the-rumpus-advice-column-77-the-truth-that-lives-there/

    I's your heart and your body, darling. The fact that your eyes are wandering happens means no more and no less than that you're a sexual human being. Every relationship has it's tough spots. It's your choice whether you want to work through them.

    If you don't really believe you should say... don't be an inspiration to the bitter Biggie's of isawyou. You don't have to love him, but you do have to make the break as clean and compassionate for him as you can, even if it's hard for you.

  10. @9 - It didn't sound like "I am attracted to more then one person!" to me. It sounded like "I don't really love my current SO (and also there's this other person)".

    If you've lost interest with the person you're with, leave. I've seen too many people drag relationships out far past when they actually died.

  11. I love him, but we're awfully different. I didn't think much of it until I came to MIT and realized with interests so much like mine.

  12. None of us are the person you should be explaining things to. I'm not going to assume how you feel about whom, or why, or when and how you need to break up with whom; Just talk about whatever's going on with whoever is involved. They care way more about how you feel and have much more relevant responses than us.